Engaged after 4 months dating
If I could go back I think we would probably have waited a shorter amount of time." 10 years: "We started dating in high school and continued through college, so there were always a lot of other things going on.
Both of us valued our relationship, but wanted to accomplish other goals before making getting married a priority.
atlhough he did have a few beers in him at this time.
But, either way, I have to say that freaked me out!
We are both in our 30s, and I think once you reach a certain age, you know what you want and you know what you need and when you find it, you hold on tight." Nine months: "I remember thinking at three months that I would totally marry him right now.
But then we got to know each other even more, we got into some necessary arguments, and our love grew even stronger.
Sorry, this is way off topic, but after a conversation last night with my boyfriend I am curious for everyone else's perspective!
We have only been dating for four months, yet at a friend's BBQ he kept introducing me as the girl he is going to marry....
Five months: "We were in love and wanted to start the rest of our lives together.To me, you date to get to know each other and then you get engaged to plan your marriage." 11 years: "I had issues with [my now-wife] being older than me.The age thing really factored into my waiting forever. Sure, [my wife] is older than I am, but she is so deeply grounded and down to earth.Once we both graduated from college and got started in our careers, my husband proposed.I believe that you shouldn't get engaged until you are truly serious about getting married.